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People who are attracted to age gap relationships are often drawn to the unique dynamic that comes with dating someone significantly older or younger than themselves. Some people may find that an age gap relationship provides them with a sense of security, stability, or financial support, while others may be attracted to the experience, maturity, or wisdom that an older partner can offer.

Additionally, some people may simply find themselves naturally attracted to partners who are significantly older or younger, regardless of any specific qualities or characteristics. It's worth noting that age gap relationships can take many different forms and can be built on a variety of different foundations, depending on the individuals involved.

However, it's important for both partners in an age gap relationship to communicate openly and honestly about their expectations and boundaries, and to ensure that the relationship is built on mutual respect and trust.

 Age gap relationships can sometimes be viewed as controversial or stigmatized by society, so it's important for both partners to be confident in their connection and to prioritize their own happiness and well-being above societal expectations or judgments.

Many people are misinformed about age gap relationships. They believe the narrative that the older man is a “creep” or a “perv” and the younger girl is a “gold digger” or has “daddy issues.”

“We can’t make generalizations about all relationships,” according to Kristen Finn,* who I spoke to through my survey on social media. Kristen and her husband have a 21 year age gap —  she’s 35 and he’s 56 —  and they have been together for almost 11 years; married for six.

Another woman surveyed stated that “It’s just not right” for couples to have a significant difference in age and “The older person in the relationship is predatorial on the younger person who is impressionable.”

“I don’t think people should judge on what’s right for other people’s relationships as long as both people are consensual adults, they should decide what’s right for themselves,” said Isabella Hernandez. Isabella and her boyfriend have a 14 year age gap and have been together for over a year.

The definition of the word predatorial is “(someone) seeking to exploit or oppress others.” Calling someone “predatorial” is a serious accusation and it could be seen as defamatory if not backed up by evidence.

I have never felt my boyfriend has been “predatorial.” Since the day we met, he has been nothing less than kind, loving, supportive, and respectful.

“We don’t decide who we fall in love with,” said Romane Bocquet. She and her boyfriend have been together for over two years and have a 23-year age-gap.

I believe that people need to be educated on what it means to be in an age-gap relationship.

Love is love and that fact is independent of gender, sex, race, or age.